Dating a man in the military is never easy, but making those sacrifices can suddenly seem worthwhile when you find the right guy. The life of a soldier's girlfriend is completely different from others. Who is the one wants a separation in a relationship? No one!! But the girlfriend of a soldier is the one who experiences this separation again and again. Many military relationships experience long term separations and that also over a long distance for a young relationship. This experience is a bit harder to survive because nowadays every couple wants to enjoy their life making memories together by spending quality time together.
 For a girl its very tough to live with a long space distance relationship; without meeting to her guy for a longer time, and to spend the day with their captured memories in their phones.




There are certain things normal relationships never experience and there are things that only military relationship would understand

Sleepless nights, continuous worry for a guy who is far away from you, loneliness, feeling jealous!! Hahaha!! Feeling jealous, why??
Seeing your friends meeting their guy regularly and imagining yourself to the atmosphere. All these stuff are always making your mind and heart restless and sad and dull. Also if when someone from your friend group asked you about your changed mood and you really don't know the reason behind.





You all must be thinking that How am I knowing all this and today why am I sharing this with my readers. The simplest answer to the question is that I am an experienced one.

Yess!! I am a military man's girlfriend. A girlfriend of a soldier who is 680 miles far from me doing his duty towards the nation and fulfilling his responsibility for the county. If you are an army girlfriend, you know what I am talking about very well.



Before I was dating him; whenever I came to know about something happen to a soldier was never affecting me much, but now I am constantly worrying and losing my sleep whenever I am hearing something wrong or a tragedy happening to a soldier. I can never explain how it feels when your boyfriend is not around you. You would never be able to let the world know that you are having such an awesome, caring, loyal and honest boyfriend that instead of living away from you he is so loyal towards, otherwise, he has no reason to be in a long distance relationship as he is having so many girls around. HiHiHii!!!



I have never missed anyone like I am missing him when he is away from me.


Secondly, you cannot just text your guy at any time whenever you wish to. Sometimes the situation arises that you won't be able to talk for two or three days when he's having a morning shift and have to go again at 1600 hrs for duty.





All I am doing in spare time is planning the things and searching for the various places so that when he comes for the next holiday we can spend our quality time together without wasting searching for a place to go or planning schedules.




Being an army girlfriend make me so proud. I have an incredible boyfriend who is doing incredible things every single day for the country. I may not have a normal relationship like my other friends. Obviously, a long distance relationship is never gonna be normal. I never imagined this type of relationship but for him, I can wait till my last breath. It may not be easy, it is worth it.


I am dedicating this article to my love, to my soul, to my best boyfriend ever. Thank you for being with me, taking lots of care of me and most important handling my mood swings. 
With Love.